When I see the term "bisexual,"....

     I am well aware that, in some parts of the world, the term "bisexual" indicates "top."  However, I will never buy that interpretation.  Can women use such a term?  Some women are "bisexual" you know!

     In my mind, "bi" means "two."  "Bisexual" means a person enjoys sex with males AND females.  That's all it means.  It does NOT mean "top" and "Gay" does NOT mean bottom.

     In my mind, people, in some parts of the world, use the term "bisexual" for themselves because they are trying to hide the truth.  I'm not talking about people who enjoy sexual love with both sexes.  I'm talking about people who use the term "bisexual" to mean "top."  The truth is they are Gay, and "bisexual" provides a bit of safety.  They are trying to play it safe.  They want all the glory, but none of the guts.  They are gaming.  They wanna poke someone (and be able to deny it), but they don't wanna get poked by anyone.

     I could be WRONG, and I can live with that.  Still, when I see the term "bisexual," in a profile, I delete the profile, because, when it comes to prospects for a potential life mate, I'm definitely NOT looking for a bisexual.