Tuesday, January 15, 2013

When I see the phrase "top only,"....

     When it comes to dating (a potential mate for life) I never want to see the phrase "top only."  When I do, I usually just move on.

     I'm not saying that there aren't any "top only" guys out there.  The world does not revolve around me and my particular preferences.  People, in my opinion, have the right to pursue their own happiness (and I have the right to pursue and maintain mine).  

     Still (and no one is forcing anyone to read this), when I read "top only," the following thoughts crop up in my mind


  • I want to do all the poking.
  • I don't want to expose myself to any possible risks, although I don't mind exposing someone else....
  • I'm just a f**ker.
  • I don't mind f**king others, but I sure don't want them f**king me!
     Yea!  I know!  I know!  There are some "bottom only" guys out there too.  I move on from their profiles too.

     Have I given away too much information about myself.  Maybe.  Maybe not.  Actually, my personal view (however naive it may be) is that if two guys are in love -- I mean REALLY IN LOVE -- with each other, they will enjoy the sexual love that belongs only to them in their own world.  Yes, I said "sexual love," and (in my mind) it won't be as simple as "top" and "bottom."  It'll be far more intimate, nurturing, wonderful and everlasting.  I look for that potential even though doing so puts me, it seems, in a very small minority.  Well, I'm okay with that, for like I said, "I have the right to pursue my own happiness."

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