Six pack abs aren't required, but...!

     as far as looks go, I'm more attracted to men with dancer / swimmer / slim build bodies.  Yes, I wish I'd see more older men with dancer / swimmer / slim build bodies than I usually do.  

     Not everyone is attracted to men of such size.  Each person, I tend to think, should embrace what he / she likes and go with it without pretense.  There's no good reason to insult people, to be rude towards people, to hate on people.  Everyone can like what / who he /she pleases, in peace.